Mom's Mosiac

Mom's Mosiac
A MOSIAC OF TLC's SOUTH AFRICAN CHILDREN

Sunday, February 27, 2011

TLC SOLDIERS

Alanna Aughenbaugh
Alanna left University in America, to come to South Africa.  She arrived at TLC on the 1st October, last year.  She came for six months and is leaving again on the 31st March.  She has really been a volunteer that offered the babies her own, very special brand of TLC.    Alanna is a lovely young lady.  So gentle, especially with the Lions (toddlers) which is where I have seen her most.  In her normal life, she loves reading, socialising, swimming and playing soccer!   When she leaves TLC she will continue with some kind of ministry work and will probably go on another mission trip of some sort.

Ann Vivier

Ann is one of the very few French volunteers that TLC has had.  I think I can count the French volunteers who have crossed our threshold on one hand.  Ann is a returning volunteer and is an incredibly special young lady.  She finished her Master’s degree in Geography and spent some time travelling before she returned to TLC to become our Volunteer Manager.    She really does an incredible job.  I have never heard her whine or complain and she is always prepared to go that extra mile for a volunteer that needs it; the babies or even the Jarvis family.  Anne loves reading, socialising and spending time with friends, photography (she is a GREAT photographer!) and she loves trekking around the country.  I think she has seen more of South Africa than I have!  And she loves listening to music.  Ann says she is not planning on leaving anytime soon.  She loves TLC too much and really wants to stay on and help us for as long as she can.
Ellie Neubert
Ellie joined us from Germany and is staying for a whole year.  She came here directly after leaving school!  What a wonderful sacrifice for a young person to make.  I am really in awe of girls like that.  Ellie joined us in September, 2010 and will be leaving in August.  Before she came to TLC her life consisted of lots of family time, socialising with friends, taking long walks and volunteer work.  When she has finished her course with us in August, she will be starting university and will be studying Social Work.

Felizitas Brinkmann

Felizitas joined us in August last year.  She came from Germany.  She will be staying with us for 9 months, returning home in June.  Felizitas is the niece of a good friend of mine so I had full confidence in her abilities from the start because she came so highly recommended.  She came to TLC directly after leaving school and has really turned out to be an incredible trouper here at TLC.  In Felizitas’ ‘normal’ life before she came to TLC she was very fond of sports, handball being her favourite.  She loves to read when she has the time and she is very sociable, enjoying time out and having fun with friends.  When Felizitas is finished at TLC, she will be returning home to start university to study Social Work.

Francisca Chengula

Francisca has been with TLC since November.  She came to Africa straight after finishing school and then spent some months working in Tanzania before coming to TLC.  Francisca is also from Germany.  She is a lovely, fun-loving girl with a great heart for children and keen volunteering spirit.   I have never heard about her complaining or feeling sorry for herself.  She has a great smile that captivates everybody here at TLC.   When she is at home and in her every-day life, Francisca loves sports such as playing tennis and basketball.  She is  fond of playing the piano and singing.  She also enjoys reading and travelling.  When Francisca has finished her term here at TLC, she hopes to study Tourism.  And of course, Francisca has a special place in my heart, because one of my names is also Francisca.  You find many Francesca’s in this world, but I have never met another Francisca!  J


Joshua Aughenbaugh


Joshua joined TLC in October of last year.  What a special young man we have here!  He came from America and arrived at TLC with his cousin, Alanna Aughenbaugh.  Joshua is a really tender hearted, Jesus kind of person who really cares deeply for the babies and children.  He has the true heart of a volunteer and will never pull his nose up at any job that requires his energy.  Joshua loves to play the guitar.  He enjoys reading, rock climbing and having fun, just chilling with good friends.  Like me, Joshua doesn’t believe in running ahead of God.  So for now he has no idea what God has in store for him when he returns home to America.  Surely, we will all miss him and the time is coming close since he will be leaving in March.  Just around the corner!   L

Kaila Sweet


Kaila’s surname says it all!  SWEET!   She  is a lovely girl who really has a servant heart and always has a big smile on her face.  Kaila is also American and is a friend of Joshua and Alanna.  She also came to TLC for 6 months and will be leaving at the end of March.  Kayla’s scrapbooking talents have been a great asset in the making of our memory books beautiful and special for our little babies who are soon to go out for adoption.  She also loves photography, sewing, quilting and hanging out, having fun with friends.  Some of the jobs Kaila has done before she came to TLC were being a nanny, working in an elevator and painting a house!  My kind of girl.  She is also simply following the lead of the Lord and will wait until she gets home before she decides what she will do with her life after TLC.

Keshia Bedard

This is the second time that Keshia has volunteered at TLC.  This time she came for a full year and has been an incredible blessing.  She arrived in May 2010 and will finish off here at TLC in May, 2011.  Keshia has been responsible for the more ‘senior’ jobs such as taking care of the newborns and distributing medicines to all the children at TLC which is a huge and very important daily task.  Keshia is half German and half American.  She has a big heart and really loves the children passionately.  Before coming to TLC she studied biology and was an English teacher.  She loves reading, watching movies, but mostly she just loves hanging out with her friends and having some fun.  Keshia’s dearest wish is  to stay in South Africa and to continue doing something valuable and fulfilling, probably to do with children.
Laura Ramm

Laura came to TLC straight after finishing school.  She arrived here in August and left on the 18th of February.  Unfortunately she has aleady gone home to go to university and study social work.  She takes with her all our love and best wishes for the future!  Thank you for all your love, Laura!

 Maria Hoffmann
Maria joined us in October last year and she will be with us until April of this year.  Maria is really one of our Star volunteers.  She is amazing and I have never heard a single complaint from her about anything.  I think she is an angel, inside and out!  In Maria’s normal life she loves reading.  She enjoys going to the Theatre.  Cooking is one of her favourite pastimes and she also takes great pleasure in nature walks and taking time out to relax and have fun with friends.  Before Maria came to TLC, she worked as a social worker for disabled and special needs children.   When she goes home, she will start her Master’s degree in Social Studies.
Mathilde Lund

I was supposed to have done this blog about two weeks ago.  Unfortunately busyness kept me from this job and then I got bronchial pneumonia which left me in bed for about a week.  So I have unfortunately also missed the boat with Mathilde who was with us for 5 months.  She came in September 2010 and left in February, 2011.  She was our Danish volunteer and was very well loved around here.   We send her all our love and good wishes for the future.  She has gone home to start working so that she can save to go to university and study psychology.  She is a very special girl and I know that she will make a great success in anything she sets her mind to.  Good luck, Mathilde!
 Sandra Niggemann

Sandra, like Mathilde above, unfortunately left before I managed to finish this post.  Sandra was a great volunteer from Germany as well.  We have really had our fair share of German volunteers this year.  We do sometimes have imbalances in the numbers of different nationalities, but this year it has been unbelievable!  Understandably, this sometimes leads to tension amongst volunteers, but it really hasn’t been too bad this year.   Sandra arrived at TLC in August and went home on the 18th February.  We are so thankful for all the hard work Sandra put in here with our babies.  She was a true warrior for our cause and always stepped up to the plate when extra hours or energy were required.  Thank you so much, Sandra.  We wish you well as you start university and we know that you can be assured of success in your course of Social Studies as you really do have a heart for the betterment of humanity.  God bless you!

Sue Platt

Sue has been a returning volunteer for the past several years.  She is a true volunteer and an incredible trouper!   She is a Main House volunteer meaning that she helps with the children of the Jarvis family.  In this case she takes care of Pippa’s non-school going children.  There are 7 of these, so it is really a big job.  One scarcely knows where to start to describe the work and life of this wonderful lady.  She came to TLC, leaving her job as a Deputy Manager of a nursery school in England.  In her spare time she loves reading, doing embroidery, building jig-saw puzzles and taking walks.  She loves going out with friends, relaxing and having a good time.  She really enjoys the outdoors.  She is also due to go home to “retire” in March.  She intends doing talks on behalf of TLC, raising awareness and encouraging prospective volunteers.  We have no idea how we are going to manage without our beloved Teacher Sue!  But she will always remain in our hearts which of full of deep gratitude for the magnificent effort she has put into TLC over the years.

Tamara Stojanovic

Tamara joined TLC in November, 2010.  She came here straight after finishing school and has really managed well considering her youth.  She will be going home again in April, 2011.  She is a wonderful, gentle young lady who is deeply loved by all the babies.  She loves Volleyball and Yoga.  She enjoys reading when she has time and always looks forward to spending time with friends, going out and having a good time.

Tom Callaghan

Tom is a fine young man.  Always polite and respectful.  He is a former St. Bede’s student.  St. Bede’s is  a school in England that has supported us for many years and we have enjoyed receiving many of their boys and girls who have come as really magnificent volunteers.  It speaks volumes about the kind of education St. Bede’s offers to its students.  We always feel that a healthy complement of boys added to our volunteer programme really helps to keep the girls in check! J  Somehow when there is only a bunch of girls with no lads, one finds a lot more hen-pecking going on.   At the moment we have several boys and the atmosphere created by their mere presence in the nursery can definitely be felt.

Tom joined us in October, 2010 and will, sadly, be leaving us in March.  When he is at home, he loves playing football, swimming, going to the cinema and visiting museums.  He is also a very sociable young man and enjoys going out with friends and having a good time.  He will be going to University to study psychology.

Sarah McGrath

Sarah is one of the cutest and sweetest little girls who has ever graced the nurseries of TLC.  She is a quiet little person.  Never gets involved in the controversies that sometimes beset TLC.  She just loves the children ... ALLL the children ...  not only the babies and the nursery children, but also the big children.  Every single child here absolutely adores Sarah and she is truly an adorable little person.  Sarah is also a returning volunteer.  This time she is only here for three months.  She arrived in December and will be returning home in March.  She loves singing, writing and painting.  She also enjoys reading.  She loves the outdoors and enjoys going out and spending time with friends and having a good time.  Before Sarah came to TLC she was a Nanny.  She is not quite sure what she will be doing when she returns home in March.
Cheyne Whitney

Cheyne has only been here for a very short time.  She arrived in January and will be returning home in July.  Now here is a really sweet and special young lady!   She is just too dear for words!  She is so great in the nursery.  Gentle, sweet and kind to the babies and never whining or complaining about her lot.  She gets on with every job like a real little soldier!  She came to TLC straight after finishing high school.  We know how hard it is for young people like this ... it is such a culture shock, coming to South Africa and having to cope with long hours of hard work.  But Cheyne is simply taking it all in her stride.  When she is at home and having a normal life, Cheyne enjoys art.   Painting and designing.  She enjoys reading.  She loves the outdoors and of course, being a normal young girl she loves to go out and hanging out with her friends and having a good time.
 Sarah Murray

Sarah Murray has also returned home already,  She was with us for 6 months and really did herself proud.  She was a graduate in Psychology and now that she has returned home she intends going to the USA to work as a nanny and earn some money so that she can return to TLC for another stint with her beloved babies!  We miss you Sarah and thank you for all the hard work you put into the babies, and much more besides.  Take good care of yourself and we wish you all the best!

George Wagg


George!   "Georgy Porgy, pudding and pie!  Kissed the girls and made them cry!"    J  Do you know when George walked in the door here at TLC, nearly every girl in the place almost fainted!  LOL!  But he took it all in his stride.  Never let it go to his head.  And now he is “just one of us”.  He is a great fellow with a huge heart and a super sense of humour.  The kids adore him and he is really excellent with any age-group.  Back home he loved to play rugby and this makes him a great friend of my son, Joshua, who shares that same passion.  He also enjoys tennis, cricket and it seems like he just loves sports in general.  He very much enjoys going out and having a good time with friends and it sounds to me like he is often the life and soul of the party!  Back in England he was the manager of a restaurant!  Imagine!  And now he is changing nappies.  That’s a good indication of the kind of Dad he is going to be one day.  At university he studied Physical Science and Geography.  When he is finished here at TLC, he would like to go into Environmental Construction (which is interesting because that is also the career that Joshua (Jarvis) is leaning towards.
Michael Rogers

Michael is from the UK and is back at TLC for his second stint.    This time he has come for 6 months.  He arrived in January and will be going home in July.  We are so grateful to have him as he has already proved himself to be a great volunteer.  At home Michael is a student in Journalism and English Literature and also worked as a Camp Counsellor in the USA.  At this point in time, Michael is still in the planning stages of his future and he is not really sure what he will be doing when he goes home in July.  Michael is involved in his church and enjoys church activities.  He is fond of reading, enjoys tennis and really enjoys travelling.

Helen Ennis

Helen has joined us from her homeland, New Zealand.  She arrived in January and will be with us for a WHOLE YEAR only going home in December.  She had a bumpy start, health wise, (which is why she preferred not to put up a photo) but now she is settling down well and seems to be very happy looking after the babies.  I always spot her walking around with a baby in her arms and a big smile on her face.  Helen loves outdoor sports, trekking and climbing.  She is also fond of reading.  At home Helen works in the family business.  I am sure they are missing her terribly and it will be quite a while before she is home again!

Roswitha

Roswitha joined us as a very special, Mature Volunteer.  She came for 4 months.  Arriving in December, she will be going home in April.  Roswitha came as a retired nurse.  She loves swimming, cycling, reading, knitting and crafts, as all good Austrians do!  J  Roswitha is really in love with the babies and manages to stay the distance every day.  Volunteers like Roswitha are asked to stay at a nearby Bed and Breakfast so that they can come and go as they please and operate as casual local volunteers.  If they hit a day where they can’t manage it does not affect our normal volunteer schedule and they can take days of as they see fit.  If you are reading this and think this might be an option for you, you can write to Sue at applications@tlc.org.za for further details.  You can also visit Misty River’s Website, http://www.mistyriver.co.za/.  The owners of Misty River are always kind enough to give our volunteers special rates and I have never yet had a complaint concerning the service provided by the Misty River Bed and Breakfast.
Caytie Davis



Caytie arrived in February with her friend, Katie Carroll.  She is a very quiet but confident young lady.  Caytie is spending 4 months at TLC and is already doing a really great job.  Before coming to TLC she worked as a nanny to save money for her trip.  At home she likes to read and plays soccer.  She is very interested in American football and enjoys most sports.  She plays the violin and one of her interests is refinishing wood furniture.  Caytie doesn’t really have an inclination what she would like to do when she is finished her time here at TLC.

Katie Carroll

Katie, like I said, came to TLC with Caytie.  The two of them seem to be very close.  They both arrived on 1st February and will be returning home in June, 2011.  Katie is also rather shy at this point, but I am sure as soon as more new volunteers arrive they will feel more comfortable.  Katie likes reading.  She enjoys volleyball and the outdoors.  She enjoys knitting, doing crafts and journaling.  When she was still at home, Katie did odd jobs and worked as a nanny to save for her trip to TLC.  When she is finished with her volunteering at TLC, she thinks she might considering saving again to do a similar trip.

Adam Tollit

Adam arrived at the beginning of the month.  He is another past pupil of St. Bede’s.  A very nice young man.  He will be staying at TLC for three months.  Adam likes listening to music and enjoys reading, playing snooker, football and cricket.  He also enjoys walking and climbing.  Adam enjoys going out and having fund with friends.  Adam saved money to get to TLC by working at Tesco’s (a Supermarket).  When he is finished at TLC Adam is going home to study Medicine at University.

Then last but not least we have the most amazing volunteer couple whose energy, capacity and generosity of heart is second to none.  I am speaking of course, about Heidi and Christian.  From October last year, when I first heard that Kieran would no longer be able to attend public school due to his heart problem, I started worrying and praying fervently for help regarding Kieran's homeschooling.  I made adverts, job descriptions and dozens of phone calls looking for a solution. 

Christian and Heidi were already here at TLC before school started and I never twigged that they were the perfect solution I was looking for.  They really do understand TLC and all our needs and emergencies.  They are always ready and on standby to step in and come to the rescue.

Benjamin, Heidi and Kieran proud of their boat-making abilities!
It turned out that it was not only Kieran who needed homeschooling but Benjamin as well because the school we were advised to enrol him into, was simply much to expensive.  Then I discovered that Heidi is a TEACHER!  And together with Christian they then came to the rescue, not only regarding the morning homeschooling lessons, but they also took charge of the homework in the afternoons, which is simply unbelievable!  God is really awesome!  Of course, they will also be going home in March but it is clear that God is already making a way for that problem.  A young gentleman called Nicholas, will be taking over Christian and Heidi's duties when they leave, and hopefully George will be able to fill in the other gap that will be left.

Christian and Kieran very happy with their raft!

I don't think I will ever be able to thank Heidi  and Christian enough for all they have done for TLC.  But I hope that the know that this is not a "One man show".  That I could not manage a single thing  without the incredible energy that all these amazing volunteers perform every single day.  Their investment will materialise one day, in a form that they will recognise and the value that they have added to these lives will one day manifest to gladden all our hearts.
 I am hoping that from now on I will be able to keep up to date, at least with the arrivals and departures of the volunteers so that everybody can be kept up to date.  I would like to do it for the babies also.

God bless you all,
All my love,
THEA

Jessica MacKenzie

Jessica has joined us from England.   She has come for six months and will leave us again in June.  Jessica is a calm and quiet young lady.   She really seems to be enjoying her work with the little ones and is very gentle in her ways, which is very good for them, especially the very small babies.  Before coming to TLC, she was a secretary at the university.   When Jessica was at home she enjoyed dancing, shapping, reading and going for long walks.   She is not 100%  sure what she will be doing when she is finished here at TLC.  She says she is going to play it by ear, to see what turns up.  Wise girl!


Sunday, January 30, 2011

AFRICAN AIDS ORPHANS

Hello dear Friend!

I appreciate your hospitality and I am honoured to be a guest on your computer today.  Thank you for being willing to read my story.  I hope our relationship will be long and fruitful!

Well, my guess is that you have read ample sob-stories to fill an ocean with tears when it comes to this subject.  No doubt you have also studied enough statistics on poverty and HIV/AIDS to fill the annals of perpetuity.  So, I don’t want to waste your time with more sob-stories and statistics today.  Maybe another day; but not today.

Rather, I would like to tell you a happy tale.  The story about our TLC babies.  Granted, each one arrives here at TLC with a desperate story.  But because they are tiny and newborn, it is easy to leave that past at the door.  We don’t discard it (however skanty), because we respect each individual baby’s roots and background.  We realise that it remains an integral part of who he is.  We file it away safely for when he is of an age where he can assimilate and understand all that happened in his little life, pre-TLC.

Where did it all begin?

I established The Love of Christ Ministries (TLC) back in 1993, after spending a year or two volunteering in orphanages and witnessing for myself the heartbreaking experiences of those babies and small children.  One day I will give you an account of some of those stories.  We brought home two abandoned baby boys in April of that same year. 
 
Newborn Joshua in my arms.  1993
It was a difficult time, politically, to do something like this.  Our country was insecure and in turmoil.  It was one year before our New South Africa was born. 

We were not hailed as hero’s when we started this work.  In fact, we were severely criticized by just about everybody.  The Welfare Authorities; our Christian brothers and sisters; even our closest friends and some of our family members.  Ironically, these were all people from whom we had expected approval and support. We were shocked when it did not turn out that way.


The common thread of argument was that it would be politically incorrect to bring those little babies into our white home. Support was only offered to us if we were prepared to do our work in a separate place, removed from our family home.  The church we belonged to at the time offered to purchase a derelict building for us.

Newborn Reuel in my
daugher, Pippa's arms
1993
But I am a mother.  First and foremost.  And every mother knows that babies need that care and nurturing of a mother’s unconditional love, 24 hours a day.  She knows that all children need a home; and that a home is more than just food and shelter. 

With a home, of course, comes a family.  A home and a loving family bring order into a child’s life.  They are essential because a child is not born knowing the difference between right and wrong.  He needs a place where he can begin to develop a moral sense.  The transmission of values and virtues is one of the most important reasons for a home.  Constant attention to those values is one of the important ties that bind a family together.


We would not be defeated.  Eventually, and after much turmoil, we had to wave our friends, some family members and even our church, goodbye and set out on our mission to save the little babies of our nation!

Our first two little boys were called Joshua and Reuel.   Joshua, as you might know, means "God Saves".  Reuel (pronounced Roo-well) means "God's Friend".  Two minute morsels of humanity; only three weeks old.  We found them in Baragwanath Hospital amongst 40 other tiny, abandoned babies. 

Tommy 1994

Tommy HIV POSITIVE 1995
A little Albino boy, Itumeleng, AKA Tommy, followed a year later. He stole and melted all our hearts.  Then at two years of age those stolen hearts were melted down even further and poured out into buckets of tears when he tested HIV Positive.  That was our initiation, and first taste of the very bitter cross we were going to have to carry in this ministry.

Brendon Pre-Op

Brendon Post-Op
After Tommy came a little boy with a hare lip and a cleft palate and we called him Brendon.  It was a name his biological Mom had already picked out for him.  Our choice would have been Benedict. In fact, we had already been calling him Benedict for a while before we discovered that his mother had named him Brendon.

He was abandoned in Johannesburg Hospital at birth. 

Soon after Brendon followed Crispin, who was born to a 13 year old street child/prostitute.  She already had a one year old to cope with.  A second baby was too much for her.

Not long after Brendon and Crispin had joined our family, God put the ministry into full throttle and more and more babies started finding their way to TLC.  In 1998, our spacious, 4 bedroomed home in Mulbarton was bulging at the seams and no longer spacious enough with my 5 biological children and the 12 little ones that God had added to our family.

Crispin 1996
I was a 'Cradle Catholic' to begin with.  Now I was contemplating a return.  But I had sojourned in extreme Protestant pastures for 10 years.  Could I go home to the Catholics once more?  Would we be shunned or welcomed?  Through my experiences, I had come to fully realise that the Prosperity Message was severely flawed, to say the least.  Yet, I had learned to despise Mary.  I had been brainwashed into believing that the Pope was evil.  Only those who have walked this path can fully grasp how traumatic this situation is.   It was a serious dilemma. 

Here, I found myself without a church but with a ministry birthed in my love for Christ.  It was impossible to remain without a spiritual home in which to raise the little ones that God was daily adding to our family.  After much soul searching and prayer, memories flooded into my heart and convinced me that if there was one church that understood ministry to orphans and widows better than any other, then it had to be the Catholic Church.

Feeling worse than a prodigal child,  I sneaked into our local parish one day, and fell in love with the rather unorthodox priest celebrating Mass that Sunday evening.  Instantly, I knew in my heart that I was in the right place.  After many subsequent, clandestine visits my whole family joined and would you believe, it was a Charismatic Parish.  One of the very few in Johannesburg!.  That was a distinct aid to my re-introduction into my Catholic faith.

Fr. Barney (an Irishman) was that unorthodox priest. Yet he is, at the same time, 100% authentic and I personally believe he is a saint in the making.  He never takes credit for anything.  A very humble man.  Yet the investment he has made into TLC has brought us where we are today.  I believe with all my heart that without this champion, TLC would not exist.

Was it plain-sailing returning to the Catholic Church?  By no means!  For many years I was regarded as a "Rhema Plant" by my fellow parishioners.  That meant that they suspected I was an underground agent, sent to misdirect Catholics to that 'fastest growing church in the North of Johannesburg'.   Some of these people held key positions in the parish.  Their paranoia caused much heartache and many tears.  In the beginning even our Bishop would frequently refer to my "chequered past".  But in the end he became a fervent friend of TLC's and sadly, he has since died.

With the help of The Knights of da Gama, (a men's organisation and fundraising arm in the Catholic Church), we purchased a farm in Eikenhof, just outside the southern border of Johannesburg.  This farm had a huge house on it, with more than enough accommodation for everybody.  Or so we thought!  Since that time, we have been growing in leaps and bounds.  I have personally adopted 19 children.  My eldest daughter, Joanna, has adopted 4 and has one biological son. My next daughter, Pippa has adopted 6 little boys, with 4 in foster care.  So, there are plus minus 30 adopted children at TLC who belong to our family forever.


Here we have the whole legitimate family together on holiday
Then there are also several others who have ended up with us and for various reasons have permanently joined our family, though they are not adopted ... yet.

It was never our intention to become a huge orphanage.  My experiences with institutional orphanages demonstrated that with quantity, quality will inevitably diminish.  So our efforts became more focussed on streamlining the adoption process in order to place each individual baby with its own, loving family.  By God’s grace we have been incredibly successful in this venture.  To date, we have managed to place more than 800 babies into wonderful, strong and loving families where they can grow into all their God given potential.

Unfortunately the New South African Child Care Act started operating last year, but far from aiding adoptions (which was its intention), it is really hampering them.  The year of 2010 was a dismil year for adoptions.  There were several reasons for this, but we will go into those another time.  Suffice to say that delayed adoptions can only ever have negative repercussions on a baby's life.


Volunteer Motivational Weekend "Away"
We received registration from the Department of Social Services as a Baby Orphanage in 2003.  But the funding was a different story.  We usually have 46 small babies who are accommodated in a beautiful nursery complex adjoining our family home.  Baby care is done by a troupe of young volunteers who come from all over the world and provide long hours of laboursome work with these tiny ones.  Volunteers was the only option open to us, without sufficient funding from the government to employ staff.  Happily, it has really worked well for us.

"NEST"  Newborn baby Section
We have a beautiful little school complex on the farm consisting of a nursery school for 20 children, and several other rooms that used to be classrooms.  This was because the majority of our children were home-schooled until January, 2009.  Since then they have all been mainstreamed. 

We have recently converted these  classrooms into offices, to make more space for the accumulating toddlers due to the slowing down of adoptions. 

Five of our children were blessed to receive Private School scholarships and sponsorships in some of Johannesburg’s best schools, such as St. David’s Boys High in Inanda and St. Katharines School for Girls in Parktown.

Our eldest boys, Joshua, Reuel and Tommy turned 18 this year.  The others are all following close behind.  I feel so proud to be able to say that all the love we have lavished on these children is now bearing fruit.  They are all growing into wonderful, noble young men and women and I feel incredibly honoured and privileged to be called the mother of these amazing young people.  We are all waiting with baited breath to see what contribution they are going to make to our wonderful country.  Was it easy?  Certainly not!  The doors in our home bear sad testimony to the tyrants adolescents turn into.  But we recognise that it is a phase every human being has to endure.  And endure we did!  And overcome we did!

I prepared this document as an introduction, so that you may have an idea of how these children have been ... and are being, raised.  I understand that it is not your usual family setting, neither is it your ordinary African Orphanage.  But I believe with all my heart, that by God’s grace in these past 19 years, I have done my best to give them my utmost.

All the children you see in the above mosaic still live at TLC, although not all of them are babies anymore.  Some of them have grown somewhat ... but the baby pictures continue to stir my heart and are a delight to me.  That is why I preferred them to current ones.  If you become a consistent blog-reader/follower, you will be introduced to the big ones soon enough.

I would like to use this blog to simply tell short stories about my experiences of the past 19 years of ministry.  I believe that the information I share might be of interest to many people.  However, I also need to use this blog as a fundraising tool.  Many, many NGO (Non Government Organisations) in our country have already closed their doors.   Others are facing a critical and life-threatening financial situation.  Many have lost government grants they became accustomed to and simply collapsed when they were removed.  We have all shared the debilitating experience of fallout from the global financial crisis. 

In 2008 when the financial crisis first hit, we were afraid.  Very afraid.  We are amongst the most vulnerable people in the world.  We and our babies.  A baby cannot help himself.  He cannot even scratch his own itch.  We cannot "earn" our own keep in any conventional sense.  At first the crisis seemed to die down without any dramatic changes to our work.  Everyone became optimistic once more, that we could weather the storm.  


But the financial demise was and still is insidious and it is very real.  From the beginning of 2010, we began to see NGO's falter, fail and fall.  Since that time not a month goes by without us hearing of another important work that has had to close its doors.  We are fellow soldiers, and we feel for them.  It's tragic.

A Bundle of Babies!
Imagine sitting in our position.  In our over-crowded little life boat, wobbling precariously.  78 children to care for, 46 of them infants.  You have to watch brothers and sisters ~ or colleagues some would call them ~ crumbling financially all around you because they simply cannot survive in the present climate.  When the final fall comes, where do they find alternative places for their charges .... there are none.  We cannot assist because we simply do not have that extra capacity and have had a few hair-raising months ourselves.  The thought is ever present.  'There but by the grace of God, go I.' or  'Will it be our turn tomorrow?'

These poor affected children end up in over-crowded state orphanages which belong to an unsympathetic government that cares little about the poor.  I look at my 78 ... and I think:  "No! No!  NOT MINE!"  I vow ... we will stick together; we all eat porridge together, if necessary.  Living on a farm certainly helps!  I have always said that my babies will only leave if their situation is improved by their departure.  

I still have one last tool in my pocket.  God has not left me without hope.  He has provided me with a gift to use in this crisis.  It is this gift of writing.  The gift of sharing my heart with the world.  With you!

And so here we are, together.  You on that side of the world.  Me and my little tribe, on this.  Yet thanks to this miraculous technology we have found each other!  Would you like to be friends, with an (oldish) lady on a little farm in Africa with 78 children to take care of?  You could be more than a friend.  :-) You could be a partner in our work, for I have always maintained that this is not a 'one man show'!   All it would take is for you to push that little donate button and make a small donation.

I am not expecting anybody to make a huge sacrifice.  I just know in my heart that if everybody who reads this blog just makes a small offering these 78 children will be safe again. 

All because of you!

Or perhaps you would like to be a volunteer?

Do you ever feel like you lost your passion for your daily life?  Would you like to "give back" to society or make a valuable investment into the lives of little children?  We run a very successful volunteer programme.  We are always looking for caregivers for our babies, or teachers to help with the older children.  People who are safe drivers.  People who might be interested in helping with other work, such as maintenance work or vegetable gardening, etc.

We also run a "Granny and Grandad" programme for retired couples who still have enough  energy to offer love and service to little ones who respond so beautifully to love and care.  If you would be interested in that particular aspect I suggest you take a dip into the website of Lynn and Ron Heitritter who worked with us most successfully for four six month stints over four consecutive years.  Their website will give you a good flavour of TLC.

http://www.ronandlynn.com/

If you are interest in volunteering, please drop a line to home@tlc.org.za and we will answer all your questions and send you all the information you require.

Dear friend, you have not heard the last of me.  If you will welcome me, I will be back! :-)

God's love to you,
Always!
Thea